Article by Peter J. Normandia. Follow me on twitter!For anyone new here, the goal of this blog is to motivate you in the daily battle for success in life. Sometimes that battle is financial, sometimes personal, sometimes internal, and sometimes out of your control. However, the important part about any battle, is understanding you are in one.
If you are not literally ‘battling’ for success, then chances are, success is not going to find you. Even someone I grew up with, now known worldwide as ‘the situation’, battled through a lot just to make it on to that reality show that made him famous. I’m not going to go into details, but trust me, the kid could not get someone to get a slice of pizza with him 2 weeks after the show stopped filming. Now, everyone I know talks about him and how ‘lucky’ he is. Read more...(1089 words, 1 image, estimated 4:21 mins reading time)
Every morning I take my cat Winx for a walk. This may seem strange, as most people do not walk their cats, but my cat loves it. I do not have a leash, or anything like that. I have a patch of grass on the side of my house, and some wooded area behind it, that Winx loves to explore. It is like he becomes a kitten every time we get to go outside. I simply take out my laptop, sit in the field, and let him roam free to do what cats do. Read more...(541 words, 1 image, estimated 2:10 mins reading time)
About 6 months ago, I decided to give up on my miserable, failing mortgage branch. I could have got a job somewhere to try and pay some of my bills but I was saddled with so much debt, I figured I might as well go for it all now. Plus, chasing money got me into this mess in the first place. I needed a change.
I had graduated film school only to wind up in the mortgage business trying to pay my bills. Lucky for me, I met my future partner, Chris, through a fellow friend and broker. Chris offered me the opportunity to get back involved in video, something I always wanted in the first place but was not ready to go after myself. This was my chance. Read more...(1133 words, 2 images, estimated 4:32 mins reading time)
In my last post I told you how I got my ass kicked on a regular basis. I’m sure you had a laugh. Such is life. Another childhood story about courage.
I’m sure many of you have a brother or sister, cousin or family member whose aim in life was to torture your existence. I have older boy cousins. They are about 10-13 years older than me. Their idea of fun when we were little was things like, filling my sneakers with tadpoles,driving me on a snowmobile and flipping it on purpose, to shooting BB guns at me as I run for my life. Those BB’s hurt like hell! Read more...(1094 words, 2 images, estimated 4:23 mins reading time)
Growing up I was always rather shy. I got picked on a few times in school. It wasn’t as if I was really afraid of other kids, rather, just unprepared. One time when I was young an older kid on our block used to pick on me relentlessly. I mean this kid would take ice cream out of other kids hands (I grew up in Brooklyn and there was a whole army of these type of kids)…Anyhow one day this kid made my little sister cry (mind you my sister was 3 and I was 8 ) I can’t remember specifically what had happen, but we got into an altercation over it and he punched me in the chin. It didn’t hurt all that much. For some odd reason I didn’t hit him back. My grandfather was standing in the window. I was shocked more than anything I guess. Probably a little too young to have an inflated ego to mend. Old enough to know that I just got punched by the neighborhood bully… Read more...(627 words, 1 image, estimated 2:30 mins reading time)
In Jiu Jitsu, life is all made pretty clear right on the mat. You can always tell if a new guy is going to last by the way they handle competition. Those who thrive on winning, and throw temper tantrums when they lose, never last too long. Instead of learning the most consistent ways to be effective, they spend the entire time trying to find cheap, lucky ways to win.
The people who last in Jiu Jitsu typically react to winning and losing exactly the same. If you looked at their face right after a match, you wouldn’t be able to tell the outcome. They lose, they move on. They win, they move on. Either way, they are just happy to be competing. Read more...(536 words, 1 image, estimated 2:09 mins reading time)
Sometimes we can forget what’s really important in life.
It’s meeting people like John Challis that helps put things back into perspective. His message is Courage + Believe= Life. It is a message we should all live by every day of our lives. So go ahead and watch the video, but be forewarned:
Meeting John Challis will definitely change your perspective on life.
America is a giant competitive country built on a dream. Any person has a chance to make a fortune and everyone is chasing it, especially where I live in the Northeast. While being financially sound is a necessary goal, the path to getting there may not be as clear. As a matter of fact, I believe it is hidden for good reason. But instead of chasing the dollar, what if you could make the money find you? Sounds crazy? Maybe not.
Let’s break it down to basics. You grow up, leave your nest (some earlier than others), and are forced to sink or swim. Each of us have many options and ways of making money. What happens is, we tend to focus on the short term. I need $2000 for expenses this month, therefore where can i get a job making $2000 or more. Though this seems logical, and it may very well be, but it is extremely short sighted. Read more...(745 words, 1 image, estimated 2:59 mins reading time)
When I went to college in the mid 90s, I had a very good friend I met in my freshman dorm. He was an Armenian young man, strong as an ox with an unmatched resolve. He was also incredibly smart at anything he put his mind to. However, the one thing I learned from him more than anything else is how to read people.
My friend had a gift for it. He seemed to know things before they happened. He was like Vito Corleone telling his Consigliore Tom exactly what every gangster would do before they did it. He opened up my mind to a whole other world of communication I had no idea existed. It consisted of reading others body language, responses, and actions. It was honestly the single most important thing I learned in my two years at the University of Maryland. It is a skill I have been developing ever since. Read more...(1197 words, 1 image, estimated 4:47 mins reading time)
My mother sent me this, as she received a chain letter. I’m not in to those sort of things, but this one has some incredible sayings worth reading and digesting over the course of the day. I was supposed to send this on to many people, but I figured this is a much better outlet.
From the letter….
This is a nice reading but short. This is what the Dalai Lama has to say for 2008.
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three R’s.
Respect for self
Respect for others
Responsibility for your action
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck. Read more...(331 words, 1 image, estimated 1:19 mins reading time)
