America is a giant competitive country built on a dream. Any person has a chance to make a fortune and everyone is chasing it, especially where I live in the Northeast. While being financially sound is a necessary goal, the path to getting there may not be as clear. As a matter of fact, I believe it is hidden for good reason. But instead of chasing the dollar, what if you could make the money find you? Sounds crazy? Maybe not.
Let’s break it down to basics. You grow up, leave your nest (some earlier than others), and are forced to sink or swim. Each of us have many options and ways of making money. What happens is, we tend to focus on the short term. I need $2000 for expenses this month, therefore where can i get a job making $2000 or more. Though this seems logical, and it may very well be, but it is extremely short sighted.
The only way to excel in this world is to do what you love.
Whatever that is, you do it to the best of your ability and I guarantee money will attract to you like a magnet. It will come out of the woodwork and feel like it is falling off trees. When we do what we love, it no longer becomes work. It becomes a challenge, a game, and it is fun every time. Success, money, and opportunity all come knocking eventually. It just takes time.
For me, this love is film making. Whether a commercial, short film, or a dance recital, I love to create something from a puzzle of moving images. Since I was little, all I did was watch movies. Not that I sat on the couch all day, but if I was watching TV, it was not a show, it was a movie. Any movie. I have seen movies made in Africa, Australia, France, Japan, Russia, Taiwan, China, India, Iran, France, Italy, Spain, Mexico, South America, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Iceland, and countless other places.
I have also seen thousands of American movies before my time including silent films, early talkies, musicals, film noir, and anything else I could get my hands on. I went to film school with a voracious appetite for film and I ate up everything I could. I soaked up as much knowledge as possible. I even worked on countless other people’s films multiple times for free who never returned the favor. However, I never got mad. Not even once.
Now, the reason I saw all these films and dove head first into the world of film making, was because I love it. I was gravitating around it my whole life. I didn’t have to force myself to watch all those films or go to all those shoots on my own dime. I did it for myself, because I wanted to.
Yet, when I graduated film school, I was torn. I wanted money to live the life I was used to and film making was not bringing me any money anytime soon. So instead of sticking with my dream, I went on a two year chase after the almighty dollar only to wind up in more debt than I ever have. I was chasing the dollar in my head, but in reality it was getting further and further away.
It was only when I was pulled back into film making by a friend that things started to turn around. Since then, I have been asked numerous times at Jiu Jitsu if I have been working out extra. They ask if I have started going to the gym because I feel stronger to them. I laugh because it is not physical strength. It is mental strength. My head is at a better place now, therefore my body is much more in tune with it’s desires.
Doing what you love is one of the hardest things to accomplish in life. It is a struggle up a mountain filled with people yelling at you to turn back. It is only those with the resolve not to listen that wind up in a place those detractors will never see.
Doing what you love will make you rich, not just financially, but spiritually as well. And the best thing of all, is it comes to you. Just keep on grinding. The apex of the mountain is just over the bend.
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they say the road lest travel sure has alot of stones…
it only has alot of stones not because of the dangerous terrain, but really because seldom few travel their. We are (forgive me if I insult anyone thats not my intention) surrounded in a world by people who are run by Fear instead of the idea of financial freedoms. Conversly freedom does not come free. Most of the times even when your goal is to become rich, it quickly fades once you become rich without truley loving it is what you do. This country people scurry off to work each morning, scared, scared they can’t pay their bills, hating work, hating their job, hating half the things they HAVE to do to churn a buck. I know I was one of them, for 11 years I worked on wall street, every day rain sleet or snow I would have to get up get dressed in a suit and tie and shuffle off to work. 9-5 corporate share croppers. Never really questioning the status quo. You get to a point where you actually convince your self this is right. For some it may be right, for many it is not right. To do something strictly because you think you will make a fortune, looses all its power, the power to making the fortune is being engulfed in what you do. whatever that may be.
My grandfather fought in ww2, he taught me alot of invaluable lessons,
I will share 3 of them;
1) the more people tell you that you can’t do something, chances are your probably on the right road.
2) its better to Be tough inside, then to look and act tough on the outside,
be a rock inside, and be loving on the outside
3) God helps those who help themselves.
these lessons stuck with me, our society is riddled with people just spending 1/2 of their lives doing something they can’t stand because they are scared they can’t pay their bills. THat to me is the true insanity of our human species. Then you have people who can relish in the unknown who can steadfast thru the smashing of the door not knowing whats on the otherside, with a sense of awe, instead of fear. These people are not driven by what would happen if I don’t make money to pay my bills, for they know by next next month this months bills will be history and nothing really matters about them.
A great qoute was said by Jack Canenfield Author of Chicken Soup for The Soul. He said “in life you don’t have to see or know where your going, just take a car for a second, if you drive across the country you won’t see cali from NY but as long as you can see with your headlights the next 200 feet in front of you you can drive across the whole country no problem. Life is like that you may not know your end goal, but those that know if i can get past this 200 feet to the next 200 feet, even if i meet a set back, I certainly didn’t fail i am 200 feet closer to my goal!